It was the Kardashian wedding to end all Kardashian weddings when Kourtney K. and Travis Barker walked down the aisle (for what was the third time) in Italy last weekend. There must be something in Roman waters too, because a week before that another reality star had his second wedding in the same neighborhood. (Although it’s not quite as grand, obviously.) As the dust finally settles around the big festivities, Barker’s ex-wife, Shanna Moakler, had some kind words to pass on to the newlyweds. This is all apparently progress as she used to have quite the bone to pick up with them all.

More on this last point later. The extravagant nuptials in question saw nearly every Kardashian-Jenner arrive – save for Robert Kardashian and Caitlyn Jenner. However, all the kids were in attendance, including Kourtney Kardashian’s three teenagers with her ex Scott Disick and Travis Barker’s two teenagers with Shanna Moakler and her stepdaughter, Atiana De La Hoya. Talk to We Weekly, Moakler maintained his newfound tendency to be cordial regarding the infamous reality TV family. In fact, she basically thanked them for her children’s invitations, saying:

I wish the happy couple a beautiful marriage. I will continue to want only the best for my children. It was a nice gesture to include my children in such a magnificent affair.

The Pacific Blue The actress made a similar statement in April about her ex’s secret Vegas wedding to Kourtney Kardashian. You know, congratulations, best wishes, all that. Then when Hulu is The Kardashians began to reveal the couple’s difficult fertility journey lately, Shanna Moakler explained how ‘fantastic’ it was that they were trying to get pregnant and that she had ‘no problem’ with the idea .

As mentioned, however, the Meet the Barkers alum actually had issues with the Kardashians at one point. Not only did she accuse Kim Kardashian last year of having an affair with Travis Barker while she was still married to him at first (Kim K denied it), but she also claimed that Kourtney Kardashian was trying to “destroy” her relationship with her children. From there, the old celebrity big brother The star continued to shadow the couple frequently in the press.

No one said mixing families would be easy, especially when it came to the Kardashians. Similar to Shanna Moakler, Kourtney Kardashian’s ex Scott Disick had his own gripes about the relationship and had to adjust to the new family normal because of it. He actually came out on The Kardashians that their children weren’t brought to celebrate the Blink-182 alum’s marriage proposal in Santa Barbara because of the logistics of not inviting Disick. Naturally, he was also not invited to the big Italian wedding. Instead, the 39-year-old distracted himself with nights out with friends.

Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker are clearly doing it big — and as many times together as possible. Between the secret Vegas wedding and the Romanesque-Gothic ceremony, the two had a more low-key affair of formally saying yes in a California courthouse. For this one, only Kardashian’s grandmother and Barker’s father were there.

The Kardashians — streaming new episodes Thursdays with a Hulu subscription — again showed a big picture of the cast’s personal dynamic. Even Kim Kardashian has been more candid than ever about her issues with Kanye West amid their divorce. Maybe future episodes will shed more light on this whole previous situation/feud with Shanna Moakler before she turned over a new leaf.